Farmhouse vs. Hotel: Reasons Why a Farmhouse Wins for Your Next Staycation

Last winter I got stressed because I had been working non stop and doing too many video calls (like zoom). I realized I need some rest. I didn't want a usual break like staying in a costly hotel, where you feel bored quickly after just one day. I wanted a new kind of break—one that felt calm, enjoyable, and special just for me.

At that moment, my friend Anish gave me an idea. He said, “Let’s go to a farmhouse for our break instead of staying in a hotel.” 

In the beginning, I was confused or not confident about the idea. I didn't know if it was a good choice. But everything that happened in the next two days made me completely change my opinion. I experienced something that made me feel very differently in a good way.

If you are confused or unsure about whether to stay in a hotel or a farmhouse for your trip. This blog will tell you the full, step-by-step story of what actually happened during a real farmhouse trip. The blog will also tell you the reasons why many people think choosing a farmhouse is the better choice.

Farmhouse vs. Hotel: Reasons Why a Farmhouse Wins for Your Next Staycation 

So, what actually happened on our farmhouse trip?

We were looking for a place to relax for a short holiday, and we found a private farmhouse in Bangalore. Our friend Anish had told us about a good website, and we used it to find the place. The farmhouse was big and had nice features. There was a swimming pool, two open grassy areas, a kitchen with everything we needed to cook, and there rooms to sleep in. We rented the farmhouse for two nights. Since there were five of us, we shared the total cost equally. Everyone paid a part of the amount.

As soon as we walked into the farmhouse, it didn't feel like a place we had paid to stay in. It felt like it belonged to us, like our own small private place where we could do anything we wanted. There were no staff members like in hotels (such as receptionists), no strangers staying around us, and we didn't have to stand in a line or wait to get our room. Everything was quick and easy. All we could hear were birds singing, and the air smelled clean and natural. It felt calm, peaceful, and perfect.

Privacy you can actually feel

The first thing I noticed was that we had a lot of private space, without anyone disturbing us. In hotels, even if they are very good, you always hear sounds happening around you. You hear staff knocking to deliver food, elevator sounds, and people talking or walking in the corridor. But at the farmhouse, none of that happened; it was peaceful and quiet.

We did not sleep early. We spent time at night playing games like ludo, Uno or monopoly in the hall. We made some food at night at 12AM because we felt hungry. Maybe something simple like noodles or sandwiches. We had fun dancing while wearing our night clothes. No one was watching us. No one gave us weird looks or told us how to behave. We felt free. Only we were there, enjoying our own mood and comfort. We created our own happy space.

Q: Do farmhouses really offer more privacy than hotels?

A: 100%. You rent the whole property—no shared pool, no noisy neighbors, no random knocks at the door. It’s just you and your crew.

Space—like real space

In hotels, you mostly stay inside your room. You don't get much space to move around freely. Sometimes, hotels give you a small outside space like a balcony or a common sitting area that other guests also use. But in the farmhouse we stayed at, we had two big garden areas, and only our group could use them, no one else. One day, I drank my morning coffee and did yoga outside under mango trees. At the same time, my friend Anish was swimming back and forth in the pool. Other friends in our group were playing badminton in the open space.

In hotels or crowded public places, you often run into other people—whether in hallways, near the pool, at breakfast buffets, or in parking areas. But in the farmhouse, it was just the people in our group.

We could move freely without worrying about strangers getting in our way. This added to the sense of comfort and calm because we didn’t have to deal with noisy or unfamiliar people around us. In hotels or shared accommodations, people often have to wait for their turn to use facilities—like using a gym machine, swimming in a busy pool, or even waiting at the buffet. But at the farmhouse, everything was ours for the entire time. There was no competition or waiting for someone else to finish. If we wanted to cook, swim, or sit in the lawn, we could do it immediately and peacefully.

Q: What if I have kids or a large group? Will a farmhouse be enough?

A: Yes! Farmhouses are ideal for big groups and kids—they can run, play, and explore without being confined like in a hotel lobby.

The joy of cooking (and midnight snacking)

We did something different we didn't call swiggy or zomato or any other. We didn't buy any food from outside during our entire stay at the farmhouse. We completely avoided takeout or deliveries. That is why it is called a “secret”—because most people usually order food on trips. Before going to the farmhouse, we bought vegetables, rice, snacks, sauces, spices, and other ingredients from the market or brought them from our homes. 

Then, at the farmhouse, we all took part in making the meals. It wasn't just one person cooking everyone helped, making it more fun and interactive. For our first dinner, we decided to cook something simple and tasty. We boiled pasta and added sauces and vegetables to it.

 We also made garlic bread—probably by applying garlic butter on bread slices and toasting them. It was an easy meal, but everyone enjoyed it.

On the second night, we decided to use the BBQ setup that was available outside the farmhouse. We had brought paneer and mushrooms, and we had already soaked them in spices and sauces earlier. We put them on grills and cooked them over the BBQ fire, enjoying the smoky and flavorful taste. 

We didn’t make any expensive or fancy restaurant-style dishes. The food was simple and made with love, just like we do at home. But because we were all cooking together, laughing, talking, and having fun while doing it, the experience felt special and memorable. The joy came not just from the food, but from the moments we shared while making it.

Q: Is cooking at a farmhouse worth it or just a hassle?

A: It's 100% worth it—especially with friends or family. You save money, eat what you love, and create bonding moments. Plus, most kitchens are fully equipped.

A unique experience, every time

I have stayed in many hotels, cheap ones and also very expensive, and luxury ones. But in the end, they all feel the same. I can't remember anything special about most of them. 

All hotels usually look and feel similar. The walls are often painted in dull, plain colors like beige (a light brown). The food is served in the same style (buffet), and they give the same small toiletry items like tiny shampoo bottles. Nothing feels different or exciting.

But the farmhouse was unique. The gate was specially decorated with hand painted art, which gave it a creative and welcome look. Inside, there was a small, warm fireplace that made the room feel homey and comfortable.

Outside, there were swings hanging from big old banyan trees, which made the place feel peaceful and playful. The farmhouse didn't feel like a random place for guests. It had a personal touch, like someone had put love and care into designing it. It felt alive, warm, and full of character—not cold and formal like a hotel.

We took a lot of photos because the place was beautiful. We played our favorite songs using portable Bluetooth speakers. 

At night, we lay down on the open terrace (roof) and looked at the stars. It was peaceful and magical. Every part of the stay felt tailored to us. It didn’t feel like a business—it felt like a home that welcomed us with open arms.

Cost-sharing made it affordable

Let's be honest. Hotels can be expensive, and the cost becomes even higher when you are not travelling alone. If you're with a group of friends or family, everyone needs a place to sleep, so you have to book more than one room. This increases the total cost. 

When you travel with a group, you often need 3 or 4 rooms to fit everyone. But that is not the only cost. 

You also pay for Food (from the hotel restaurant or outside),

Room service (ordering food or drinks to your room),

Other facilities (like using the hotel gym, spa, or pool).

All these things together increase your spending quickly.

We booked one farmhouse and five people shared the total cost. That means each person paid only a part of the full amount. When we compared this cost to how much we would have spent if we had booked hotel rooms and paid for food and services, the farmhouse option was less than 50% of the hotel cost. 

Not only did we save money, but the fun and freedom we experienced at the farmhouse were way better than what a hotel could offer.

Why?

• We had full privacy,

• We could cook our own meals,

• We had large outdoor space,

• We could play music, talk late at night, and enjoy like we were at home—but better.

So the value of the experience was much higher than just staying in a hotel room.

The farmhouse stay was cheaper. We could enjoy more activities freely, without hotel rules. In hotels, you usually have to get ready before going down to the restaurant. But at the farmhouse, we could eat in our pajamas, relax, and take it easy.

If you’re on a budget or just want value for money, booking a private farmhouse in Bangalore can make the trip richer without burning your wallet.

The slow magic of nature

The 2nd morning means the second day of the stay at the farmhouse. Waking up at 6 AM shows it was early, after sunrise, when nature is calm. Walking outside barefoot means the person which shows a feeling of peace, comfort, and being connected to nature.

 The tiny drops of water that appear on grass or plants early in the morning due to moisture in the air. The grass was covered in these fresh little water droplets, making it cool and refreshing to walk on. This adds to the peaceful, fresh morning atmosphere. There was no noise like you usually hear in the city—no cars, horns, or people talking.

My friend relaxed on a garden swing or hanging bench, enjoying the outdoor view. It was cool, so they wrapped themselves in a warm, cozy blanket. We drank hot tea, which added to the comfort. 

There were no background sounds of air conditioning machines like hotel rooms.There was natural songs like birds, trees and animal etc.

In hotels you can see nice views from the window but you are away from the nature.But the advantage of farmhouse is that you can stay in the nature.

Moments like this are why more and more people choose a private farmhouse in Bangalore for vacation

So, who should choose a farmhouse over a hotel?

Families: Kids get space to play, and parents get to relax without worrying about noise.

Friends groups: Split costs, cook meals together, and party in private.

Couples: Way more romantic than a generic hotel room.

Pet parents: Your furry friends are welcome here

Final Thoughts

The farmhouse stay wasn’t just a trip. It felt like a big, deep breath. It helped us relax, laugh, and remember how nice it is to spend real time together. We didn’t have to go far or spend a lot of money to feel happy.

So next time you need a break, don’t rush to book a hotel. Try something special—stay at a farmhouse. It’s calm, fun, and feels just like home.

Farmhouse vs. Hotel: Reasons Why a Farmhouse Wins for Your Next Staycation

You’ll return refreshed, recharged, and maybe even plan your next one before the first ends.

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FAQs: Farmhouse vs. Hotel Staycation

1. Is a farmhouse better than a hotel for a group staycation?

Yes, Farmhouses are ideal for group trips as they offer more space, privacy, and shared areas like lawns, pools, and kitchens. You also save money by splitting costs.

2. Are farmhouses safe and secure for families or couples?

Most farmhouses are gated, have caretakers, and are located in peaceful areas. As long as you book verified listings with good reviews, they’re absolutely safe for families and couples.

3. Can I cook my own meals at a farmhouse?

Absolutely. Most farmhouses provide a fully equipped kitchen, refrigerator, utensils, and sometimes even outdoor BBQ setups—perfect for homemade meals and midnight cravings.

4. Are farmhouses more expensive than hotels?

Not really. While the upfront cost of a farmhouse may seem higher, once you split it among 4–10 people, it turns out to be more affordable than booking multiple hotel rooms and dining out.

5. What should I carry for a farmhouse stay?

Carry your groceries if you plan to cook, personal toiletries, Bluetooth speaker, games, comfortable clothes, and any special snacks or drinks. Some farmhouses also recommend bringing insect repellent for outdoor activities.